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Safety & Privacy

Discretion is a habit, not a slogan. Below are concrete rules we publish for readers and anyone using casual dating platforms — including how we think about moderation on Wethunt’s editorial side.

Editorially reviewed by: Wethunt Editorial Team

Community standards (what we expect)

These rules mirror what we recommend in chat and on dates. They are not legal advice; they are practical boundaries that keep interactions respectful.

Consent first. Only proceed when both sides clearly want to. “Maybe” or silence means stop or slow down.
No harassment. Repeated contact after someone asked to stop, threats, or sexual coercion are never acceptable.
No minors, no non-consensual content. We do not host or link to illegal material. Report suspected exploitation to local authorities.
Honest intent. Misleading profiles (fake age, stolen photos, catfishing) erode trust — we call that out in our guides.
Privacy of others. Do not share screenshots, real names, or workplaces without explicit agreement.

The 5 principles (everyday practice)

Separate contexts: use a separate browser profile or device area, dedicated email, and fixed time windows so dating activity does not bleed into work or family screens.
Reduce notifications: turn off lock-screen previews, use Focus / Do Not Disturb, and disable banner alerts for dating apps in shared spaces.
Minimize data: skip employer, exact address, and daily routine in your profile; crop or blur identifying backgrounds in photos.
Communicate calmly: pressure to meet, send intimate images, or “prove” trust is a red flag. You do not owe a debate.
Review monthly: cloud photo backup, browser sync, shared tablets, and app permissions — one short check prevents leaks.

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Before meeting someone (checklist)

1. Public first

First meeting in a busy café or similar. Avoid home addresses until you have consistent, respectful behaviour over time.

2. Tell one person

Share approximate location and time with a friend you trust (without oversharing private details of the date).

3. Own transport

Keep control of how you leave. If you feel off, you can exit without depending on the other person.

4. Substances

Stay clear enough to notice red flags. Don’t accept open drinks from strangers; pace yourself.

5. Intimacy boundaries

Agree only to what you want. You can change your mind at any time; a good partner accepts that without argument.

6. Aftercare

If something felt wrong, document time/messages (for yourself), block if needed, and see Support.

Safe communication

Set the frame early

Mention discretion, your pace, and boundaries in one or two sentences. It filters mismatches early.

No boundary tests

Requests for “proof” of attraction, urgent money asks, or moving to external apps in the first message are common risk patterns.

End clearly

Short goodbye is enough. Blocking after repeated pressure is reasonable — you don’t owe a long explanation.

Photos & identity

No identifying details

Badges, unique tattoos visible to colleagues, house numbers, and licence plates in reflections can deanonymize you.

Reverse image search

If someone’s photos look too polished, run a quick search — scammers often reuse stock or stolen images.

Cloud & backups

Disable auto-upload for your dating folder if your camera roll syncs to family cloud accounts.

Wethunt content & moderation

What we publish: English-language guides for adults (18+). We update articles when safety best practices change (e.g. OS privacy settings).

What we don’t do: We are not a law firm or crisis hotline. For emergencies, contact local emergency services.

Partner platform: Registration may redirect to an independent partner service. Their rules and reporting tools apply there — check their help centre after sign-up.